

No book of religion, except the Bible, teaches that God completely forgives sin. In the New Testament, God’s forgiveness is total because the blood of Christ cleanses from all sins (1 John 1:7). On the cross, Jesus received the curse of all breakers of the Law of God (Deuteronomy 28; Galatians 3:13). Having paid that penalty, he nullified the old contract and placed us under a new covenant of grace where we are justified not by our perfect performance (Ephesians 2:8), but by who we are: the sons and daughters of God (Galatians 3:15–29). Our forgiveness from God depends on our forgiveness of others (Matthew 6:14; 18:21, 22, 32–35; Luke 6:27, 36, 37).
Take this prayer and make it your own. It's also a good idea to close your prayer by confessing before God the names of the people you are forgiving, and to say what you are forgiving them for. Remember that forgiveness does not mean you have to forget what has been done to you--the people you forgive may still not be safe for you to be around--but forgiveness does mean letting go, moving on, and not trying to retaliate or hurt the individual who hurt you.
“Lord, I want to believe and accept your forgiveness. Please help me know and understand in my heart how deep your forgiveness and grace is. I know that in order to forgive other people, I need to receive your forgiveness for me. I want to honor you with my heart and character and attitudes. You have set us free from all of our debts. Holy Spirit, I want to cooperate with you as you transform my character to be in line with God’s. Help me have peace in these places, and patience for these people. If there is any wound in my heart that is keeping me from forgiving, I want to surrender it to you, and trust you to heal the broken places in me.”